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well, after false recoveries and a weekend away to jumpstart Recovery, I just found out my H is going to proceed w/ the Div even though he is the one who had the A -- I have no idea what happened except I think he is afraid he will have to pay more $ if we reconcile instead of Div because he is getting a big bonus this year -
I've read about some people reconciling AFTER divorce, but how is this possible?? especially if Div is stressful/heated, as it usually is? I just don't see how this is possible <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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I don't have any advice to give but just wanted to say "hang in there". It's such a long hard road but you will make it. Be strong!!!!
Me 35 STBX 39 Dear son 9 Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990) D-Day July 20, 2004. Divorcing! What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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