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#1407545 06/17/05 04:18 PM
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HI all,

Just an update.

We were together for a while, but things broke down.

He was still lying and seeing ow after all.

We had an arguement and he hit me.

I asked him to leave.

I told him that our only hope now is counseling and that it is up to him.

If anyone is praying, pray that he will agree to get help.

Love to all,

Shul


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We had an arguement and he hit me.
Shul, I am so sorry. Did you file a police report? I don't know if counseling will help if he is abusive. Very, very sorry.


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One up for you Shul. Sorry to hear about it. Good to keep your boundries. Make sure he knows he has to show continued proof of NC if he wants to come back again.

Bless you.

S&C


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Shul I'm SO sorry <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

A Hopeful BS worst nightmare....

Props on standing your boundaries, though girl...this experience so far has borne you sand it seems.


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