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#1407967 06/18/05 01:26 PM
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Well, I finally got what I wanted, honesty from FWH. He says it is over with them, I believe it is true, but I do worry that witht he way he is feeling that to help it go away that he will try to get back with her.

Right now, he is feeling really bad and I don't like watching him go through this. It hurts me that he is hurting, he is even hurting over how he hurt me.

Job stinks, I keep looking for better


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How long has this been going on?


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How long did it take for him to tell you??


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OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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((((Sue))))

Voluntarily, or did the years of evidence overwhelm him finally?


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The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"?

The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!"

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Right now he is probably feeling sorry for himself.


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