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Can anyone tell me what ever happened to the Marriage Counsleor named Penne Tupi or something like that. Her WH cheated on her again and she was dealing with some tough fallout from this.
Did she succeed in re-recovering her marriage? I am just curious as I have never seen an update posted here. Hope all is well.
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LM
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Lemonman, Penny has a website that she posts and coaches/counsels on. I believe you will find her there and any updates she might have. It is in the forums section there, I forget which. Perhaps in Infidelity. Hope this helps. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> saveyourmarriagecentral.com Love in Christ, Miss M
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LM - That would be saveyourmarriagecentral.com.
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... and if you've seen her pic, you'll know that her H is an idiot!
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AD....humor me *smile*
Are you just being lighthearted about that? The picture thing? On the surface, I know what you are getting at, but it was hard for me to decipher whether you were being totally serious. I'm not wanting to be confrontational, just making sure that you were not implying that good looks were so critical for staying in a relationship.
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She's doing fine! she was actually my coach for a while! I am not sure if she has recovered her marriage or not...but I know she was trying! She is a great gal...
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If I put up a picture of myself from many many years ago ... I wonder if any of you would feel deceived? Just wondering ..... Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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B4Long, Well, I'm sure that good looks are relatively unimportant, but inasmuch as her H was having a ONS - which by it's very nature is a shallow thing driven more much by lust than anything else - his action doesn't make sense to me. But, of course, it must have been driven by something else - perhaps the OW seemed to admire him or something like that. But, yeah, I was mostly joking. And I want to add (in my defense) that I have never posted my photo here - and this is the first time I've ever commented on anybody's photo (except for the pic of FGG's dog). In general, I think the photo-listing is a bad idea - as there are a lot of hurting lonely people here - and I'm sure amongst them more than one who are perusing the photos as if they were on a personals site. But, having thus defended myself, I'll issue a mea culpa and desist from such comments in the future - as I myself find then innapropriate. (But, really, the guy's gotta be an idiot! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />) -AD
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If I put up a picture of myself from many many years ago ... I wonder if any of you would feel deceived? YES especially when there are people that know better. (but...if you do post one, post the one from the cruise. You were hot. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />) Susan
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Well, I'm sure that good looks are relatively unimportant, but inasmuch as her H was having a ONS He was not just having a ONS. He is a serial cheater. Susan
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Susan,
I won't claim to have followed the story closely. Is he a serial cheater who established persistant extra-marital relationships, or a series of girls he met in bars? If it is the latter, then surely they are all shallow lust-driven things.
My W's A is not that kind.
Honestly, I don't understand A's at all - since for me family is much more important than any imaginable hour of pleasure. Even with all the pain that I have suffered from W's actions, if you offered me "Miss Universe" for an hour, I would decline without the slightest hesitation (and with a sense of revulsion at the very idea of it).
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Their M, unfortunately, began as one of those A ---> to M situations that we warn people about. "If he does it with you, he'll do it to you."
Sad to see this happen. But under the circumstances, not entirely surprising.
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Is he a serial cheater who established persistant extra-marital relationships, or a series of girls he met in bars? If it is the latter, then surely they are all shallow lust-driven things. It appears he has a hard time staying away from online dating sites (which continued after their marriage). He and Penny met on an online dating site. Susan
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Pep: The pic2re I sent 2 Faith is now 10 years old. I don't THINK I was deceiving anybody with that one... ...but the one from the King Crimson album was deliberate! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> -ol' 2long
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