In another mood again. H moved out on Friday, said he didn't love me anymore and was tired of all the bulls... Said I drain him of everything. Seems to be the last 7 yrs of marriage for him have been bad, sure we had our ups and downs. He is a "recoveing A" he just drank on weekends and that is when things would get violent. but since the last 4 yrs of no drinking he is not happy with me. I love my husband very much, he moved out last fall and was seeing a co-worker, he said they were just friends that did things together, but her husband must have thought different because he booted her out for a night. well he moved back home after a month apart, then in march the jerk went to his dads and was going to call her but called our home number instead, still i shallowed my pride and said please don't do that again. Well like i said he just moved out again Friday. I feel lost. I want him back but am tired of living with the lies and always wondering if he is in contact with her. I keep telling myself this is for the best, but then i get into a crying fit when i hear that he is out and about enjoying life while i'm at home trying to figure out how to pay bills. I can't seem to focus on my college work or move about to pick up or clean the house. While i'm doing some housework and yard work i get all mad at him again for leaving me. I don't know what to do..

Do you have kids together?