Hi,

How are things? Wishing you the best.

I had posted something here earlier..but somehow it disappeared. 2 weeks ago, my 18 yr old son was asking questions and wondered why dad seems to have these episodes of rage...and then threatens to move out. We had a long discussion and I did tell him that it was because of the OM and that I had kissed him and was inappropriate with him. I didn't feel that I needed to give any more details than that.

He understood, asked a few more questions that I answered truthfully. He said that the OM was using me and that even though I did something wrong I shouldn't go around feeling guilty all the time etc. He understood somewhat where his dad was coming from and I think overall it went okay. I explained that dad didn't want him thinking any differently about me adn thats why we hadn't said anything up to that point.

All in all - I think it was a good conversation. I just started IC 2 weeks ago...and we will soon get back into MC. Hubby and I seem to be doing okay. I have tried some of the things that wer mentioned in this post...and they seem to help.

Thanks for asking.