If moved out Friday(6/17/05) this has happened 3 or 4 times before. Seems he is not happy living how we live and wants more from life. things have not been good for some time and he won't go to MC. We were going about 4 yrs. ago due to his drinking and violent temper. Got that unser control and he has not been happy since. Seems to think I only use him for his money and cleaning abilities. When I asked him what I could do that will make him happy again he says getting you out of my life will do. I just want to like we were whne we were first married 10 yrs. ago. He keeps bringing up the fact that he will be 40 in a month and life is not will he wants it to be. He would rather start over then try to work on the problems we have. I just can't let go. To me marriage is about working to meet everyone involes needs, you take some and you get some, he tells me I take all the time and never give, when I ask for input he clams up. Oh I don't know what to do?

i hear your pain am there to. you need to focus on your self. i know its hard but take care of your self first.