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BS, Me, 43
FWH, 40
M 14 yrs, together 17
1 S 11,1 DD 1st M 19
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^^ for Orchid and Believer!


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M 14 yrs, together 17
1 S 11,1 DD 1st M 19
Dday 11/1/03
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M 14 yrs, together 17
1 S 11,1 DD 1st M 19
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Hey Hopeful,

This session was a great one. I am learning right along with her. She writes with such feeling, I can feel her emotions jumping out of the page.

Jerry's observations are right on the $$. I think we BS take on too much and the WS gets away with murder (or very close to it). I recall when my WS had a slip of the tongue and said that as long as I would allow him, he w/b using me. Welp, that one stopped ASAP. LOL!!! Or at least as quickly as I could. Sure made going to plan B much easier.

Thanks for the heads up. Tell Mulberry, she has a fan club here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Aloha,
L.

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Orchid,

I already told her and you are absolutely right. She is doing us all a great service by sharing her sessions. I think she is one lucky gal really.

I will keep you posted for more mulberry as it comes in.

HINY


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Thank you believer,
The Mulberry post is great and I joined the site.
I think orchid and I have way lots in common, I just do not lash out, but it kills me not to. Keeping it in makes me nuts!!
Tammy


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35 BS (me)
52 WH
17 DS
15 DD
14 DDs twins
Currently in R.
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference" The Serenity Prayer
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Thank you believer,
The Mulberry post is great and I joined the site.
I think orchid and I have way lots in common, I just do not lash out, but it kills me not to. Keeping it in makes me nuts!!
Tammy

Tammy,

How can we help you? Don't want to see or hear about a MBer going 'nuts'. That's what the WS' do to us. Not that we do to each other. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

L.


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