[color:"purple"] [/color] Could someone offer some insight my WH and I had a fight yesterday and of course it turned ugly as usual, I am mad or angry at him because he hasn't iniiated sex with me in almost a year, we have not had sex in a year due to his A. For a while it was my choice because he disgusted me with the fact that he did that with someone else, my husband is the only man I have ever been with. So while we were arguing the other day, he said well you just arent' sexual you never have been. So now I feel even worse. I mean my confidence level is already so low and they he says that to me. So in my mind I am going crazy with confirmation that the OW is better at everything than I am. I want to be a good wife. I want to make him happy. But I want him to make me happy too. I want to be loved and touched and brought flowers all of which he doesnt do. How can I make him understand how much this affair hurt me and how can I get over this. I just wanna have sex,make love to my husband. It shouldn't be too much to ask and yet it is.