As I posted yesterday, i felt fine with what was happening. Had a break down today. H has been gone 1 week. He asked me not to call him ever, said it was final, he was never coming back. How do you know if this is true? Do I grant him his wish and make no contact with him? This is killing me not knowing. H said when he moved out he was not paying for a thing, The only way that I can get him to help out till I get my crap together is filing or at least that is what I'm told. Can anyone answer me on how can you you be married for so long and just walk out and want nothing to do with spouse? Does this thing happen. We have no children together, I have a 16 yr. old D. People around me say things like they think he is going through mid-life, or depression. One min. he is happy then the next hates the world. What should I do. I'm afraid if I do nothing a D is coming, but if I push he will only come back out of guilt. He plans on renting a U-haul to take 1/2 of everything. We have gone through this before only to have him return saying he can't picture his life without me or he not ready to let me go. What do I do, please help!!Do i move forward in my life? I know it is to soon to date and have intention too, but D has a BF that is a single dad, and they both do the horse shows, he took my D w/him last night to one and I rode with them, I don't want H to think I'm dating someone, what do I do? They hang and he is sometimes part of the package. Oh will someone give me their input about what H is doing to our marriage or what is going on in his head. p.s. can't seem to response to post i write, so i will have to start another one if you have questions.
