Well H came over to get his paycheck, he has been gone for 1 week as of today. it was hard seeing him, he looked good. My heart had butterflies. I asked him in to talk real quick. He made a quick reply " I'm not coming back" We talked about what to do w/house, then I told him I needed closure. I told him how sorry I was for not sticking to selling house in winter and all the mean things I had said to him, I also let him know I said and did things without thinking. That I would give him his space and then he told me he loves me but not in a husband and wife way, that I was just scared about money things and getting through college. He also said he was not happy and when I asked what he needed to be happy he just he does not even know anymore. Well long story short It hurt hearing those words from him, realizing he is not coming back to me, but it also felt good letting him know my true feelings and that I still loved, it was how the marriage was going that I didn't love anymore. Let him know if if wanted to try to work things out I would be here for a while. He said no why, we been through this to many times. (5) Oh well, I said my good bye and now the balls in his court. Do you think I did the right thing?