Dear Mf4m,
Sorry to hear about the ongoing babble along with abusive actions. Right now, IMHO you need to NOT give Ed ultimatums but learn how to give Ed the same info in such a way that his WS mind can absorb and digest it. He is vomiting garbage because that is what his mind is filled with. WS' will ALWAYS fight what the BS says. So don't say it. Let me know when you want those suggestions. I have a few but those WS' eyes are probably looking for our BS gems. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Here's one: Hi D23B, How r u doing? Figure you might be reading here. Seems like you have more time on your hands, eh? Hm..... thought you'd be busy with that new baby. Hope she is cute. Your boys must be growing up fast. They usually do. While that happens our lives just keep running along at such a fast pace. I know that my Xws (now H) truly regrets how he missed out on our sons first few years in school as a result of his A. Nothing can bring those times back. He now has to make the best of the time he has left with our son now. Sure hope you want t/d the same. U do don't you?
Ok D23b, gotta go.
take care,
L.
Mom,
Figure out that D23b will read this. Don't tell him about it. Watch his words and actions. He may figure this is a bait or trap of some sort. It isn't. I am not on a hunt to catch a WS. re: They don't run straight. LOL!!! He can see this is normal chit chat. If he can't handle that then well, he has taken a step down. Normal chit chat, ya know? Don't defend just say, Orchid wrote what she wanted to say w/o any input or coaching from you. If he has a problem with it, he can respond to Orchid himself.
Ok dear, have a nice day.
Aloha,
L.
