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The other day, I was in the elevator coming to work......the cleaning lady stops me and tells me that a lady on the 3rd floor asked her about me and told her to find out if I would be interested in getting together. I told the cleaning lady that I was flattered, but happily married. The cleaning lady then stated...."thats OK, the lady is married also, she just likes to play around". <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Can you believe the state of thing today?? Where people are just openly having affairs like its no big deal?? I was flattered at first, but then got down about that whole situation. I went home and gave my wife a big ol kiss. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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Yes, I can believe it! I've had similar things happen to me. Actually, I had a friend tell me that she wanted me to date her husband. Needless to say we aren't such good friends anymore. People have lost thier minds!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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Its really, really crazy. I mean, I would never cheat on my wife, I dont see how people can feel comfortable doing it........Its just plain WRONG. If someone needs to cheat, why dont they just be honest and tell the spouse they need to leave? Thats what I would do. People feel what the other person doesnt know wont hurt them....what they fail to realize though.....usually the other spouse does find out, and that DESTROYS them!!!!
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Well, I wish I knew how to make people stop cheating. Unfortunately they have to learn the hard way and it destroys everyone else in the process. I can only hope that they will have get what they deserve in the end. They made their bed and now they must lie in it....
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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