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#1417369 07/03/05 07:26 PM
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my h is going out with his lover tonight. its like he just cant stop. he said that he has "a company function" at a club? this is not the type of company that would have a "function" at a club. i am so angry but am trying to keep with plan A. any advice for me?
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CG,

Are you simply surmising that H is going to be with OW, or are you certain? As the BS (betrayed spouse), ALL you can do at this point is establish your "boundary". Let it be known that this behaviour is very hurtful to you.

I'm not familiar with your situation, so any info would be helpful.

BTW, I am familiar with what you're going through. My W used to drop me off at work and then drive 3 hours to meet her "lover" (gag, puke). She'd return the following evening. I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE FEELING!

Me, 58
Her, 52 (called away 4/5/2005)
Married 32+
d-day (this time) 6/13/04
children - grown

The highest courage is to dare to be yourself in the face of adversity. Choosing right over wrong, ethic over convenience, and truth over popularity...these are choices that measure your life.

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