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#1417382 07/03/05 07:54 PM
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i want to talk

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Well, not many folks about this holiday weekend. BUT, I have a "willing ear". Go for it...


Me, 58
Her, 52 (called away 4/5/2005)
Married 32+
d-day (this time) 6/13/04
children - grown

The highest courage is to dare to be yourself in the face of adversity. Choosing right over wrong, ethic over convenience, and truth over popularity...these are choices that measure your life.
Ron53 #1417384 07/03/05 08:18 PM
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I'm listening too. But Ron is much smarter.

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cool i just feel very lonely tonight because my h is out with his lover. its just sad and hurts. i dont know how to deal with it

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Hi CG,

So tell us what YOU'RE thinking. Tell us what YOU'RE feeling. Take a moment to examine you. Right now, all you can control is YOU. Let's talk about Cancergirl.

BTW, DO NOT believe that "smarter" stuff. Not "smarter" by any stretch...


Me, 58
Her, 52 (called away 4/5/2005)
Married 32+
d-day (this time) 6/13/04
children - grown

The highest courage is to dare to be yourself in the face of adversity. Choosing right over wrong, ethic over convenience, and truth over popularity...these are choices that measure your life.
Ron53 #1417387 07/03/05 09:03 PM
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Cancergirl -

I'm having trouble following your threads. So far I have figured out that you had an A, two years ago, but stopped it when your husband starting being suspicious.

I missed why you had the affair. Do you know why? Also did the two of you go to any counseling? Did you work on issues together?

Next, I see that you had a baby.

Now your husband has a girlfriend.

Is that about right?

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I'm here "listening" too.


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