My wife and I have just divorced-1 week ago.15 years together.She got pregnant by OM during affair. About 6 months after separation he moved in to the house. She told me that she is regretting breaking up our home and she realizes all the good times we had. So Know she realizes that she is consantently unhappy and is really turning to God for guidence and has put her boyfriend on the couch and she sleeps with the baby in the bedroom. She says she feels she can not get close to God with him sleeping with her in the bed let alone have sex..QUESTION-----She is a christian and he is not..Can God bless something like this or will he. What if OM man gets saved will it be blessed.. NOt a good sign anyway if he is on couch. If she got the help she needed --lot of child hood baggage. I probable would take her back. But things would have to seriously change <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> lsu_la@yahoo.com

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