OK So I am not sure of an affair but I am in Plan A to an extent while I research the affair. She has started the divorce process and I am trying to slow it down... While in plan A can I:

Ask her to discuss the effects of the divorce on us and our famlily?

Write letters and love notes? (in moderation ever?)



I know I am supposed to isolate and work on me but these thoughts are natural. She sees some change but it has not changed her mind due to the amount of pain/hurt inflicted.

Help any thoughts?

I found a voicemail to her boss that was a little too friendly 'just called to hear his voice'. ughhh

Last edited by billp; 07/06/05 07:43 AM.