ok thanks to all who read my drama from the past weekend.

quick recap: me and H got in huge argument. he left for awhile then came home saying he didnt want to leave etc. (that was friday night)

after that i've thoguht long an dhard and i guess i do over react about a lot of stuff. and i need to let more things go. but there is something still bothering me. should i let it go?

see when he wanted to leave he wanted to take my car keys (whihc also had his mothers house keys on it.) i didnt wnathim to take it. i didnt feel comfortable with him having my car key and he wouldnt jsut take his mothers off of it and i couldnt get it off the keychain. so i didnt give it to him.

well this weekend we used his moms house and we used the keys all weekend. normally i keep them in the car cause i go to his mom's house a lot. and use the keys. well last night when we left i put them in my car door like i normally do. today i was cleaning the kitchen and opend the junk drawer. and they were in there. meaning last night when we got home he took them in and put them in there.


now i will not start a fight with him. i will ask him noramlly why he moved them. but inside i am s cared hes hiding them so he can just leave. i'm scared hes plannin gon leaving or something.

since the other night he has been still the same wtih me where i feel like he picks on ever little thing i do wrong. and not the most cuddly etc.

should i contuinie being nervous or just let it go?? its making me sick to my stomach...

Why don't you just move the keys somewhere else without comment and see what he does/says?

I did move them. but i doubt he'll say anything. should i not even mention it at all.?

Also we have a trip planned for this weekend with the kids an my mom. its our major summer trip. were leaving on saturday. but the area that we are going to has a tropical storm heading in that direction. now after living in hurricane country so far we know it can vear away or not even go there at any moment. but when he cfalled tonight he was like are you watching that storm... i said yea but all the latest motdels put it a way from where were going. he said even if it is far away do you kow how much rain will be there. is aid well. we can do our indoor things on sat adn sunday. he said its a hurricane we wont be doing anything.... to me it feels like hes trying to get out of it. unless its dangerous ewe plan on going... i am fustrated. but i didnt say anything about the keys.

I would wait and watch for now. As for the vacation, can you come up with an acceptable alternative if the storm hits that area?