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is it okay to attempt seduction on wh if we are seperated?
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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As long as you are in plan A, but be careful of STD's.
I don't know what would make me worry more. Loosing him, or getting him back. LOL.
It could be fun - in some ways.
SS
I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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Okay i lost a lot of weigh and i look good in a bikini. i think it could be worth a shot. whats the worst that could happen right he rejects me oh well at least i will have tried right now i just have to plan it very carefully to get him alone with no kids around to ruin it. he was watching me in my underware the other day. so why not tempt him a little more and i will becareful
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Think about what SS said. Think about the STDs. While it is understandable (only after you have been a BS) to want your H, what you w/b getting now is a WS NOT your H. R U sure you want a to seduce a WS?
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not sure about anything just needed opinion on if it might be a good thing to try. considering everything. i just wonder if it would bring him around a little more?
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Well, I did it and it wasnt' too difficult. SF wasn't one dept we sufferred from incompatibilty. Anyway, the SF was very very good. My IC says it was because WH didn't have the feeling of commitment (or strings) so he was free to to just have fun. I say, I was the one who felt that and just felt free to let go. If you are worrying about it this much though, you may end up in tears or very emotional and ruin the whole thing. Just my opinion.
BS: 37 (me)
WH: 35
D-Day: 6/10/05
Plan A'd from a distance - WH moved out
Plan B started: 10/04/05
Plan B fell apart: 10/14/05
Back on the Plan B pony 10/23/05
Baby stepping in recovery since 11/06/05
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