ok the past 2 weeks have gone WAY down hill with my H after about 4 months of things going way up. now he really wants to change our vacation plan. i just want to wait till tommrow to decide so we were emailng back and forth. i wrote a really nice email to tell him that and send him the latest forcasts on the hurricane. Well we have a problme disagreeing he thinks its the end of the world if we disagree about something. aand i wrote in it i'll give you a call alter. ( i havent been calling him at work. but he used to ask me to so i thought i'd be nice and start trying to call once a day to say hi. " and he wrote this back:


But you have to understand the storm is going to be big and the rain and crap will extend outwards from the center. Don't call I am very busy. I have to deal with the other call center today so I am going crazy



i didnt write back and i guess i wont call. but it kinda makes me sad b/c everyday he finds time to talk to his friend (male) on the phone and he doesnt call home any more since the past 2 weeks etc.

do i just ignore and keep plugging along?

Are you in Plan A?

I dont know what i'm in. i thought we were in recovery. then last week we got into a huge arguement. about his work. he's still mad about that. and he holds on to his anger and things for a long time. so i know he's still angry . this really doesnt have to do with OW> i'm just trying to get my M back on track. it was great for about 4/5 months Then this happend and i feel like i'm back to square A.