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My STBX is going off the deep end....I'm very serious! He went to my bank today where we have a loan together. I used to work there and he went in and told my old boss that he can't pay our loan anymore. He says he has no money...only money for gas. He went on and on telling her how he's living with his parents and he's the responsable one and I need to pay all the bills. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> All of my friends know the whole story and they know he lives with the OW. It's just ridiculous! I'm so tired of this. Is he ever going to stop this???? He keeps sending my Mom emails too. I truly don't know how much more of this I can take. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> I did find out today that my mediation has been set for Aug. 31. God...I hope we can work things out at that time. If not then I have to give a deposition on Sept. 6th and got to trial Sept. 12th. Please say a prayer for me all of my MB friends...I need it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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My mom bought me a pin that says "It's better to have loved and lost than to LIVE WITH THE PSYCHO FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> LOL!!!!!!!! That pin is SO for you, Tree, I oughta send it to you! hehehehe <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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HEY! I thought he was becoming all "spiritually superior" ... and all that jazz... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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LOL....That's great!!! I definitley need a pin like that! Where did she get it???
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
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Pep...he's becoming something but don't think it's "spiritually superior". LOL!!!!!!
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STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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D'ya think you could get it in writing from the bank people what he just tried to pull? Just to keep it in his file?
If anything...it'll prove how "over you" he is. ROTFLMAO!
Love ya, Tree. Glad God gave ya a kick a$$ sense of humor! Too bad He gave you STBXWH's share also!
- Kimmy
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I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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I'm not sure where she got it - guessing one of those little gift shop/Hallmark type places.
Now I just need a pin that says "better to have argued and lost than to continue to be verbally assaulted on an online forum..." (not you Tree, lol)
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Dealan-de.....yeah...he's really showing that he's "over me" isn't he? ROFL!!!!! He just can't seem to let go. He's the one that wanted me to go away and now the tables are turned. LOL!
faithhopelove04...I could think of all sort of pins to make. We should go into business. LOL.
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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OMG! Tree, are you sure we are not married to the same person! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> My H claims he cant find a house because they are all too expensive and then in the next sentence he says "i'm going to be living in my $400,000 house while you live on the streets" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> OKEY DOKEY! I have a stack full of papers here with 30 houses just in MY NEIGHBORHOOD...oh but wait, he says those are BENEATH him! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> You hang in there Tree! I'm giong to court today! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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HEY! I thought he was becoming all "spiritually superior" ... and all that jazz... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> BTW, happy birthday pep! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />
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Hi TR,
Boy,I am sorry your WH is still pulling these stunts.Your poor Mom should block your WH's e-mails too or change her's altogether.It's amazing how these WS'S just suck all the energy and goodness out of life isn't it?
I am going through my own he** right now with Mediation crumbling right before my eyes(lots of money at stake) and now I am bracing for a soon to be legal battle that I had fervently hoped to avoid.UGH.Mostly why I haven't been around lately.
Keep hanging in there though until it's finally over.There has to be some peace somewhere at the end of the tunnel.I sure hope you can work through everything but always protect yourself as best you can and listen to the professionals.I sure hope you can avoid a trial though.
Prayers to you~
O
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DDay 10/11/03
Divorcing
'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1
~Let Higher Minds Prevail~
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MovingForward4me....It sure sounds like we could be married to the same alien. LOL!
Good luck in court. My prayers are with you. Keep us posted!
Octobergirl..... Yep, still going through the same garbage. I'm so sorry to hear that you aren't doing so great these days. I'm really nervous myself about mediation. I'm so worried about losing my home. It finally hit me last night.....I think the reason my STBX is in such a hurry to sell the house and get his share is because he owes the OW money for paying for the divorce. She's helping him. From what I've heard they aren't doing so great. He must want to pay her back and get rid of her. Don't know but sure is a funny thought. :-)
They will all get what they deserve.
Please let me know how your mediation goes. I'll be thinking of you and my prayers are with you.
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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My mom bought me a pin that says "It's better to have loved and lost than to LIVE WITH THE PSYCHO FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> LOL!!!!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Where can I get one <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />...I would wear that everywhere I go <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> I am an old member but have not posted here for ages but am at the same stage as the rest of you...Filed for Divorce and STBX is dragging his heels....claims he has no income therefore no maintenance until court date...my thoughts and prayers are with you all...(((((NO))))
M 30 yrs.
WS 50 (him)
BS 51 (me)
S 30
Granddaughters 5 and 8
DD July 4/03
MO Oct 4/03
NC Feb 14/04
Resumed A with OW March 1/04
Filed Petition for Divorce Jan13/05
How Many Roads Must A Man Travel Down Before He Admits He Is Lost?
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I would like VERY MUCH to hit your WH.
Or even better to get him interviewed by local news asking him to justify all this horseshit.
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New Outlook....I love the name...it's perfect!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you also! We'll all get through this craziness somehow!
bob...feel free to come on down and hit him all you want.:-)
I have a better idea...can we get admitted into the looney bin???? LOL
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Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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I have a sticker that beats that button. It reads:
I'm not effing stupid
but I used to
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I have a sticker that beats that button. It reads:
I'm not effing stupid
but I used to
GC [color:"red"] FUNNEE [/color] <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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GC....that is hilarious!!!! I love it! Where did you get that one??????
Me 35
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Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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