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3 beautiful sons,and 1 beautiful daughter!
Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me....
I guess it is shame on me.
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KMEJ,
glad to hear things seem to be looking up. One question though. Has WH sought any help regarding the physical abuse issue?
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3 beautiful sons,and 1 beautiful daughter!
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I guess it is shame on me.
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"no and he refuses too."
In this case I will merely reiterate what numerous others have told you. Your boys need a mother that is alive. Sorry to sound harsh, but I dont know any other way to say it.
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KMEJ -
Don't run away...although you might feel bashed by everyone here telling you what you don't want to hear, everyone has your and your tornadoes' best interests at heart. I have been following your story for a while, but not posting to you. Please stay around and let people who care about you help....
TM
BH (Me) 32,
WW 38
no kids
been together 14.5 yrs.
married 9
D-day 12/5/04
D final 11/23/05, she got it all...I just wanted out.
Done with her...selfishness is not a virtue
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I am not running, well I guess I kind of am. I was trying to post about some of the good things that were happening, because some people think that I just post about the bad for attention or shock value, and that is not the case, so I shared some good. I guess I am not ready for the up and walk away that I should be ready for (that others would feel ready for) so I was hurt by that was all that was said.
KMEJ
3 beautiful sons,and 1 beautiful daughter!
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KMEJ,
I am merely trying to help you keep things in perspective. Yes, celebrate small victories. It is what keeps folks like us going. But you cant ignore the elephant in the room. That elephant is going to take a crap sooner or later. I just dont want you to be underneath it when it lets go.
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I understand, thanks Crushed. I am probably over sensitive, like I had stated in my other post it was my birthday last Friday, and my family usually gets together, or does something special, and I think they forgot this year. Granted my dad's wife has family issue right now so I understood the day of, but it has been almost a week now. Like I said I am over sensitive, my husband and kids remembered that should be good enough.
Thanks for the reality check- I was being selfish
KMEJ
3 beautiful sons,and 1 beautiful daughter!
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