Should H be alowed to keep old female friends? But not only friends but ex-fiance? Even if they live in another state???
Im confused about this and a little irritated with my H.
Heres the whole story: He loved this girl, they were sole mates and whatever! Well jump ahead many years. She is married with 5 kids (to my H's ex-bestfriend no less) and living in Utah, we are in Cali. She joins the air force (props to her for that) and she starts emailing my H asking him to keep in touch with her. And just yesterday we recieve a letter she mailed to him. Im a little irritated with her for presumming my husband is going to keep in touch with her. I understand they were good friends and lovers in highschool but I think its time to move on. I comfronted my H about it and he said he would stop talking to her.
What is really bad is. I snooped and read some of the emails they sent back and forth. She is having some problems in her marriage and asked my H to check in on hers (since they were friends). And my husband said to her "Of course I will. Ill always be there for you when you need me" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Oh that made me so mad. Do I have the right to let this get under my skin?
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I feel like my husband is only giving me half his heart. If he was going to "be there" for someone I feel it should be me. not some ex from his past.
I feel like writing her and yelling at her for her rude behavior toward me. I also feel like email her husband (because I have his email but unlike her never use it) just to get back at her, make her know how it feels. But I thought I would come here and vent my spleen before doing anything to rash.
What should I do? How should I feel? Am I blowing it out of proportion?
