|
|
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108 |
Today I am 23, however its been hard. No plans, no celebration, nothing. Its sad, but I do have one thing: my son!!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722 |
we can celebrate together! Have an MB bash, haha. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't forget to smile!
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722 |
In a way, I know how you feel - for my 20th b-day the W and I didn't do a whole lot; went out to eat and came home and watched movies...although, it was fun at the time cuz it seemed like she cared <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108 |
Thanks!!! Lets party!!! But as I read your stuff last night, I have tons to ask you and stuff! My in laws live there in Snohomish/Bothell area. And I was wondering where do you currently live? I told them about you and maybe you can come to their church sometime!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722 |
Oh - I'm staying with a friend in Woodinville; just getting my life together as far as bettering myself as a husband and potential father is concerned. I'm spending the alone time focusing on God and myself as a person.
I don't really think getting together, even for church, however would be the best of ideas. I appreciate the invitation though.
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108 |
No I live in FL I just thought it would help you because the pastor is GREAT!!!! Its in Edmonds. Anyways I am also trying to do the same as you. I try to read the Bible as much as possible and read to my son. My faith is the only thing that keeps me going
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,719
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 1,719 |
Happy Birthday. Take your son out or buy a small cake and eat it with son. I have done nothing for my B-day and do not want one thing. 1st yr WH gave me a party at our favaorite resteraunt and I was so angry because for awhile he would act all lovey dovey in front of OP until we came home. So I do not like my B-Day.
married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108 |
That sucks. My son is too young for cake plus we dont have a car so......but its ok! I will talk to you all while he's sleeping and when he wakes up play with him. Thanks for all the birthday wishes!!!
love ya
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 722 |
lol, please no speaking of cake eating - even if in a literal sense <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
What all did you want to ask me cancergirl? Ask away - my life = a book of information!
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 519
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 519 |
My B-day was last month...not a call, email, or text message from my WW...the very same one who later told me, "We love each other too much...we will end up together one day, I just know it."
UGH.
TM
BH (Me) 32,
WW 38
no kids
been together 14.5 yrs.
married 9
D-day 12/5/04
D final 11/23/05, she got it all...I just wanted out.
Done with her...selfishness is not a virtue
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 108 |
So sorry. Well happy belated b-day!!! I am glad that I have a place to come where people will listen and offer advice as well as b-day wishes!!! So thanks!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11,539
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11,539 |
Happy b-day cgirl. If you put your birthdate on your member information you will have a cake next ot your name today. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Mar 2000
Posts: 1,885
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Mar 2000
Posts: 1,885 |
HAPPY BIRTHDAY cancergirl~~~~
Enjoy the night with your son. I know it's hard. You're still young and have your whole life ahead of you.
HUGS!!!!
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,435
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 1,435 |
Happy Birthday again, dear co-Cancergirl ! My birthdays haven't been very happy these last years. After miscarriages, depression, health problems both for me and my parents I finally thought when I turned 42: this is a good "number". Things will get better now, the worst has passed. Little did I know that my H went on a sex-date with my best friend a few days before my birthday, and that he also went to a prostitute two days after my birthday "to not get too emotionally involved with OW". Of course you feel there is something wrong, it's that invisible elephant in the middle of the living room. But I'm happy to tell you that I'll be having a great 44th birthday on Sunday. I'm going out for lunch with my mum and sister (who know the whole story) and they have been having a great time sneaking around buying gifts for me. I have received wonderful cards from family and friends already. I know I'm loved. My new home will soon be finished (needed some upgrading <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />) and I'm going to start my new life in two-three weeks. No matter what happens, dear Cancergirl, you can get through this and make a happy life for yourself and for that wonderful gift, your son.
|
|
|
|
1 members (finnbentley),
634
guests, and
82
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,525
Members72,044
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
