Hi there .. you must think I'm nutty, but there is no "reply" otpion displayed on my screen above each note??

Thanks for your reply ... yes, it does seem as though we are putting other relationships ahead of our marriage, but I cannot walk/abandon on my daughter, whom I love dearly and have a close relationship with. Yes, I can go in another 5 years or so, but he says he cannot stay here any longer as he is so homesick. To commute every couple of months is out of the question since flights are $800 return per person. His family rarely come to visit him, it's a real shame. Neither of us want to be apart, but it looks like he's going to go...we have been unable to come to a resolution...it's breaking my heart...