I've tried to help a few people on here who's partners want to walk away from the M. But now I've met someone on the internet that is ready to walk away from her H and I'm not sure there is anything I can do.

As far as I know there is no A, even though she is tempted. I've suggested Retrouvaille, but she absolutely hates the religious connotation. I've directed her to this site, but I realize that she is the one in withdrawal. I need to get ahold of her H, but I only know her. Does anyone have suggestions on how I can reach her? I keep telling her to send the links to her H and buy "His Needs/Her Needs" for her H, but I don't think she's done either. At least they are going to MC, but I'm thinking that may take too long to work. Any thoughts?


me - BS
him - WS
married 9/16/00
daughter 7/30/02
previous EA/PA 12/03
EA 1/15/14
D-Day 1/30/14
PA 3/11/14