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Today started off good for me. To bad my H came home and ruined it. I am moving on now for me and my son. We need to be in a happier enviorment.
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Mine has been pretty crappy -
Filled with all of these emotions; I'm trying to cope and ignore what is going on but its simply impossible. Everything I do, everything I listen to or say reminds me of my W; she wanted me to call her yesterday so I did, but she didn't answer - I left a message; she never returned contact...I guess life is dandy without the H around huh? Wish it was that easy for me..
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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Good, thanks!
Had a nice meal out with my girls this evening. We asked WH to join us but he wouldn't. So we had fun, just the three of us.
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Oh - not to mention I found out my full-time job has gone from 40 hours a week to FIVE. F-I-V-E. Meanwhile, my W was lucky enough to find herself a steady 40+ hour a week job WITH benefits - as if I didn't feel bad enough as it is; now I feel like a bum.
I have two job interviews today; so hopefully things will look up, but for the time being I feel like absolute crap.
My journey with God is a plus however, and I feel like a new person through all of this; but emotionally right now things really suck hard.
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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Fox,
Sorry to hear that. Maybe she was just waiting to see IF you would call. Maybe she just wants to know that you're still there for her? I dont know, thats weird stuff girls do! I would just rather not have my H around because he's so mean and hurtful. Its easier to cope when he's not around. This whole situation is hard, especially since there is a child involved.
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Actually - you know what...
Life is good; I spend too much time in the negative.
Let's see; I kept up with my journal today, had a nice refreshing shower, and am off to look for some more jobs today. Not to mention I woke up and was blessed enough to spend another day in God's wonderful creation.
Life is GOOD.
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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Well - the weird thing is,
Her best friend asked me for the link to my online journal today: that threw me off. Her best friend never talks to me; and a huge emphasis was placed on getting the information for my journal - is it just me or is that a little odd? Why would her best friend want to read my journal? I didn't even know her best friend knew I had a journal.
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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Alph,
I am glad you had fun!!! I am just sitting here watching the news to see IF we are going to get Hurricane Dennis anywhere near us. I am not prepared so I am getting a little worried
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Hi Cg, I'm not doing too badly.Sniff.... I caught a cold from my youngest DD but I just couldn't stop kissing her sweet little face and I was willing to risk infection.LOL Aside from my WH now making the D I am going through more difficult and challenging me on money issues(even though I thought Mediation would work out)I am still looking forward to being on my own once and for all,away from the lying,cheating,selfish,hurtful person my WH has now become.I am handling things ok though.I have good friends advising me and I feel better about that. But,I am blessed(Thank you God) that my DD's are healthy and safe and that I am healthy and with them.We have a roof over our heads( a nice one at that!) and food to eat.With all the chaos and hurtful people in the world,I do still feel fortunate. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> O
BW(me)40
DDay 10/11/03
Divorcing
'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1
~Let Higher Minds Prevail~
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~Life isn't complicated,we make it that way~
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Octobergirl,
How old is she? I am glad that you are happy and healthy. I hope that I can be in a place like you someday. I am trying to get my situation straight for my son. He deserves so much more than this bad enviorment.
Fox,
I do agree that is odd. Maybe she wants to know how you are feeling without having to actually talk to you. Maybe she doesnt want to seem like she's trying when she really is? I dont know what else to say?
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That's all I can really think of - maybe it's a good sign! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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I will pray that its a good sign. So what happened with your job? Why did the hours get cut??
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my DD's are healthy and safe and that I am healthy and with them. Absolutely. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Alph,
I am really happy for you. Its good to see someone here with some positive stuff in there life!!!!!! I couldnt think of another word for "stuff"
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Bad business, corporate forced them to cut payroll - in fact, I have to leave right now for a job interview; wish me luck.
SMILE!
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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GOOD LUCK FOX!!!!!
STAY POSITIVE!!!!!!
DONT BE NERVOUS!!!!
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cancergirl, For 'stuff', read 'child'. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> They make it all OK in the long run. My kids are such a comfort to me. It's great that you are putting your little one first in your life. Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Hi Cg,
My youngest is 10.LOL Not exactly that young but if you saw her and knew her,you would understand what a sweet,petite girl she is and she has a heart of gold.She's also a hambone which just makes her all the more loveable.LOL
You'll get to a place like me soon enough.Judging by your reg date,you have a ways to go though.Hang in there~
O
BW(me)40
DDay 10/11/03
Divorcing
'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1
~Let Higher Minds Prevail~
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~Life isn't complicated,we make it that way~
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