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Let it be known !! #1421310 07/08/05 05:01 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 722 F Fox0r Member
Fox0r Member F Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 722	From this point forward; I am going to try to the best of my ability to focus on everything GOOD that happens in my life; in my relationship with my W, and my relationship with God. Please hold me accountable for this: one of my biggest problems in our relationship was that I was too negative all of the time - one of my W's biggest ENs is being happy and around happy people; so please - if you see me being negative slap me a good one and remind me of this topic! I hope all are having an excellent day! God bless you! -A Me 20 WW 20 Friends since: December 10, 1999 Began Dating: October 29, 2003 Married Feb 13, 2004 D-Day: July 28, 2005 Separated since: June 9, 2005 Now in Plan B - headed for D. Praying on God's guidance and support But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Re: Let it be known !! Fox0r #1421311 07/08/05 05:10 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 108 C cancergirl Member
cancergirl Member C Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 108	Deal if you will also do the same for me. I am tired of being negative and mad. I am trying to be a happier more positive person.

Re: Let it be known !! cancergirl #1421312 07/08/05 05:11 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 722 F Fox0r Member
Fox0r Member F Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 722	Alright deal - BE HAPPY! DON'T FORGET TO SMILE!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Me 20 WW 20 Friends since: December 10, 1999 Began Dating: October 29, 2003 Married Feb 13, 2004 D-Day: July 28, 2005 Separated since: June 9, 2005 Now in Plan B - headed for D. Praying on God's guidance and support But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Re: Let it be known !! Fox0r #1421313 07/08/05 05:56 PM
Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 3,912 _ _AD_ Member
_AD_ Member _ Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 3,912	Hey FoxOr, OK you can drop the "shadow of death" from your sig line now. Pick a more positive one. OK. How 'bout Isaiah 40:31 Quote But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. -AD

Re: Let it be known !! _AD_ #1421314 07/08/05 06:55 PM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 245 H hurtnheart Member
hurtnheart Member H Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 245	Fox, Sounds like we went to the same school. It was one of my W big EN,s. Some Ideas I do that help. Put a big pasty note on my steering wheel(last thing I see before I get home) Leave the negativity at the door. SMILE when entering the house. On my cellphone, on the banner heading (which talks when opened) that says BE Positve! When I feel I am negative, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> (blushing) I think of the best SF I have had with W. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> Always seems to cheer me up. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> and last, I try to put a smile on my W face. She has such a beautiful smile. It works majority of the time. don't forget though, you are entitled to some downtime, but keep it on your time. best of luck, I will check with you later. Cancergirl, same with you, see if it works, I will check with you also. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Last edited by hurtnheart; 07/08/05 06:59 PM. ME 40 WW 40 Married 14y EA 2mos PA 1(12/20) D-day 12/22/04 recovering?

Re: Let it be known !! hurtnheart #1421315 07/08/05 08:04 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 722 F Fox0r Member
Fox0r Member F Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 722	Well - God couldn't have tested my new found attitude soon enough. Literally five minutes after this post I realized my wallet was taken out of my backpack yesterday at work - I have no ID, no money, nothing now. Me 20 WW 20 Friends since: December 10, 1999 Began Dating: October 29, 2003 Married Feb 13, 2004 D-Day: July 28, 2005 Separated since: June 9, 2005 Now in Plan B - headed for D. Praying on God's guidance and support But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

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