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Spaghetti was good now I am ready for advice and to listen to others!!!!
My H is going out with OW tonight (again) so I am feeling pretty low.
But I do have my son!!!!! (positive thinking)
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Cancergirl, Sorry to hear that this is happening. I haven't looked at your original post yet, but I will. Are you still in the same house with him? Is he going out with ow with your knowledge? I will go back and check the history, I just wanted to know we are here for you.
ME 40
WW 40
Married 14y
EA 2mos
PA 1(12/20)
D-day 12/22/04
recovering?
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Yeah he wont stop contact with her. When I tell him thats a boundary he's crossed, he flips out and I get scared of him. So basically while he's here me and my son lock ourselves in my room!!!!!
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Get out or find someone to stay with. you do not need to be in this enviroment. Use this time he is out to find a friend to stay with. Your bounderies are only good if you mean them.
Can someone else help with this, I don't want to scare you off.
ME 40
WW 40
Married 14y
EA 2mos
PA 1(12/20)
D-day 12/22/04
recovering?
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if you are afraid to stay in your home for fear of physical harm. leave do not stay there. you are in danger remember you are not dealing with your husband your are dealing with an alien. if he gets angry and you are afraid for you or your son find another place to stay and do not reveal your location to yor WH. let him come home to an empty house. wait a day or 2 then call him and inform him that dealing with him right now has made you fear for your safety and son's. if wants to contact you us an alternet source that can be trusted like a family member that will not reveal your location. if he wants to meet you tell hin that you will not see him until he has seen someone about his anger issues. that is the best i can do i hope it helped
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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