O.k. I FINALLY found the OW's house so I can deliver exposure letter to her H. I mapped out the street address coming from a different location and it gave me a different set of directions!! Finally got it on the 4th try. I don't know why I didn't think of that earlier. Just got back from seeing if I could find the house(past midnight here).

Plan is to deliver tomorrow morning. My situation is that I am supposedly dealing with an abusive H and I could not find a working phone # for these people:

Dear Mr........

You don't know me, but I am the wife of the man your wife (insert name) is seeing. I am working very hard to save my marriage as I love my H very much. I have been told that you already know about that (wife) has been seeing someone. I hope you are able to work on your marrige too. It's not too late.

I love my H and will continue fighting for my marrige. You can contact me at [email]xxx@yahoo.com.[/email]

You might wish to vist marriagebuilders.com as it has helped me tremendously.

Best,
A Caring Wife

I am a bit scared of course, but will follow through. I might have to have DS in the car.....I plan to just hand a sealed letter and turn around & get in my car.

Thanks,

Kim
D-Day May 14th
Married 13 years
DS, age 5

Kim,

Congratulations on your resourcefulness!

On the letter, I had one suggestion:
Why say "seeing"? Call it what it is!


-AD

AD -

You're right....It is an "A", not "seeing someone".....I don't know why I was trying to "soften" the letter.

Thanks,

Kim