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I am looking for songs to download to take on a trip. I'd like suggestions of empowering, 'take that you loser' songs. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
I already have: 'My Give a Damn's Busted,' 'I Will Survive,' and 'Independence Day.'
I like all kinds of music (country, pop, rock, blues, whatever), so any suggestions are welcome.
Thanks!!
Me 40, STBXWH 43
Married 16 years
D-day 01/25/05
Son 14, Daughter 10
Divorce almost final - I hope!
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'Hit The Road, Jack' - Ray Charles
'Enough is Enough' - Barbra Streisand
'Move On' - Abba
'Stop your Sobbing' - Pretenders
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Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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'Eye of the Tiger' by Survivor 'That Don't Impress Me Much' by Shania 'Black Cat' by Janet Jackson 'Free Your Mind' by En Vogue (there are a few more on that CD worth taking a listen to as well) 'March to the Scaffold' by Berlioz - all instrumental, but imagine Bam Bam being marched down the streets of France to his death at the gallows for his continued choices, and his last thought is of the sweetheart he betrayed... yes, the classical composers do have a sense of real life, mixed with humor... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> 'Cold Hearted Snake' by Paula Abdul 'Brick House' by Commodors 'You Could Have Been With Me' by Sheena Easton and some great instrumental music for driving down the road "toward" your future, Fresh Aire I and Fresh Aire II are great, as is anything by Kurt Bestor - Seasons or Innovators CDs are favorites.
Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1 The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"? The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!" If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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"I Need a Lover (that won't drive me crazy)" Pat Benatar
BS: 37 (me)
WH: 35
D-Day: 6/10/05
Plan A'd from a distance - WH moved out
Plan B started: 10/04/05
Plan B fell apart: 10/14/05
Back on the Plan B pony 10/23/05
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Survior by destiny child.
I would also recommend that you listen to the linkin park cd's meteora and hybrid theory.
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Aretha " RESPECT " and natural woman.
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Nazareth, Hair of the Dog, ~~~NOW, YOU'RE MESSIN WITH A SONOFABIT**!!!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Aretha " RESPECT " and natural woman. How do you know ARETHA, ya silly Brit??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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ML, my brothe ris 16 year solder than me. He left home when I was 11 and left me all his records... I grew UP on the queen of soul, the stones, Neil young, Marvin, Beatles, ZZ top, Johnny Winter, Muddy Waters, Small faces...man...so many great albums. Aretha is why I think God chooses only black angels to sing for him in heaven. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Oh, Mel, we DO have high-fidelity systems over here, you know? (Just not necessarily with our spouses...)
My choice:
'Every day I love you less and less', by the Kaiser Chiefs.
"Integrity is telling myself the truth. And honesty is telling the truth to other people." - Spencer Johnson
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Hi Pebbles,
I've never posted to you before (in fact, never post much at all) but i have followed your story faithfully and just wanted you to know i'm in your corner rooting for you and the restoration of your marriage. I see hope for your marriage but most of all I see what a wonderful, admirable, unselfish, patient woman you are and your husband would be crazy to let you slip away. You're just so lovable/adorable! So anyways back to your request, These may or may not be your type of music but I was born in the late late 70's so the music I listen to is really what the young crowd listens to today and it's really just "Whatever, I don't need you loser" type of music, If you try my selections out, I think You might really enjoy them
Here are a few of my favorites:
"Fighter" by Christina Aguilera (one of my favorites)
"Call Tyrone" by Erykah Badu (one of my favorites_
"Miss Independent" by Destiny's Child
"You Oughta Know" by Alanis Morisette (one of my favs)
"There You Go" by Pink (really really one of my favs)
"Strong Enough" by Cher
"Stronger" by Britney Spears
Me-29, Husband-28
We have one son together - 10 mo. old
He has 3 children from a previous marriage, ages 11, 9, 6 yrs old.
3nd DDay 11/10/05- another Email A. H denied it being EA or PA..just sexual in nature with an ex fling.
My 3rd marriage, His 2nd
**REALLY want to the tools to make this ONE work**
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Thank you for the suggestions, everyone! I have burned a CD of 'take that, you loser' songs to listen to on my 3-hour drive tomorrow. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> A few I will have to listen to with headphones - I don't want my kids to end up singing along to "Son of a B*&%#." <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
Me 40, STBXWH 43
Married 16 years
D-day 01/25/05
Son 14, Daughter 10
Divorce almost final - I hope!
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MoBo4, I just saw your post. Thank you so much for the kind words! I will check out your song suggestions, too. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Me 40, STBXWH 43
Married 16 years
D-day 01/25/05
Son 14, Daughter 10
Divorce almost final - I hope!
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The Sign - Ace of Base
Anything but Down - Sheryl Crow
Goodbye Earl - Dixie Chicks
Let Him Fly - Dixie Chicks
Since you been gone - Kelly Clarkson
These boot are made for walking - Nancy Sinatra
The Power of Goodbye - Madonna
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Oh, Mel, we DO have high-fidelity systems over here, you know? (Just not necessarily with our spouses...) WOW.. so y'all even have electricity over there??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Just got back from Taco Bell and now my mind is overflowing with song suggestions, here are some more:
"Separated" Avant
"Rain on Me" Ashanti
"All My love" Jennifer Lopez
"Get Out" Jo Jo
"He wasn't man enough for me" Toni Braxton
"Movin On" Mya
"Impossible" Christina Aguilera
and this one isn't necessarily about a man but it always made me feel good when I felt mistreated by a man
"Feelin' So Good" Jennifer Lopez
Me-29, Husband-28
We have one son together - 10 mo. old
He has 3 children from a previous marriage, ages 11, 9, 6 yrs old.
3nd DDay 11/10/05- another Email A. H denied it being EA or PA..just sexual in nature with an ex fling.
My 3rd marriage, His 2nd
**REALLY want to the tools to make this ONE work**
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Just got back from Taco Bell and now my mind along with that of my husband and my step daughter is overflowing with song suggestions:
"No More Drama" Mary J Blige
"Movin' On" Mya
"He wasn't man enough for me" Toni Braxton
"Separated" Avant
"All My love" Jennifer Lopez
"Rain on Me" Ashanti
"Impossible" Christina Aguilera
"A Woman's Worth" Alicia Keys
"Get Out" Jo Jo
and this one isn't about a man or relationships but it ALWAYS makes me feel like I'm on top of the world when I feel mistreated
"Feeling So Good" Jennifer lopez
Me-29, Husband-28
We have one son together - 10 mo. old
He has 3 children from a previous marriage, ages 11, 9, 6 yrs old.
3nd DDay 11/10/05- another Email A. H denied it being EA or PA..just sexual in nature with an ex fling.
My 3rd marriage, His 2nd
**REALLY want to the tools to make this ONE work**
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sigh......... y'all's songs are just too............NICE. Sort of like Canadians! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I like mine the best!
Heart breaker, soul shaker
I’ve been told about you
Steamroller, midnight stroller
What they’ve been saying must be true
Bridge:
Red hot mama
Velvet charmer
Time’s come to pay your dues
Chorus:
Now you’re messin’ with a
A son of a [censored]
Now you’re messin’ with a son of a [censored]
Now you’re messin’ with a
A son of a [censored]
Now you’re messin’ with a son of a [censored]
Talkin’ jivey, poison ivy
You ain’t gonna cling to me
Man taker, born faker
I ain’t so blind I can’t see
Hair of the Dog by Nazareth
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Eeeeesh. They don't have to be gender-specific, right? Here are a few ideas for older, rootsier stuff.
Led Zeppelin - Your Time is Gonna Come
Anything by Patsy Cline
Bob Dylan - Like a Rolling Stone
Actually Patsy's stuff tends to be more anguished, so maybe not so much...
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Destroy by The Eyeliners. Joan Jett is a plus. Dobie
Me - BS
DDay 1 (Multiple affairs while overseas) - Feb 2003
DDay 2 (AdultFriendFinder Profile) - April 2007
Seeing a counselor. I think we have him stumped.
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