That my STBXH is cheating on his prego OW with an old GF that just came back into town a couple of months ago. She's supposedly divorced with a 16yo daughter.

Don't know if it's true but, I heard it from a friend of a friend of a friend of STBXH.

Anyway, rumor has it, the new OW was one of his HSGFs and that he had been totally in love with her.

When she went away to college he got involved with his now ex-wife which he then had to marry cause she got pregnant.

And to top it all off he's still calling me trying to set up a date for dinner or something, so we can talk about maybe resolving our situation. OMG!!! I swear I'm getting to the point where I can't stand this man.

I don't know how much of this I should believe but, regardless of whether it's true or not, it gives me one more reason to get the h3ll out of this marriage.

I told him last time he called that I wanted him to get me the divorce papers ASAP. He told me not to be in such a hurry that I should stop and think things over.

I talked to my doctor and told him that if my STBX doesn't get this divorce over with soon I'm going to file the papers myself.

He thinks I should talk to my STBX and listen to what he has to say before doing anything. I thought, OH H3ll No!! I want this over with now!!!

Thank God for the happy pills, they're the only things keeping me from coming unglued.

What do you think? Should I file the papers myself?

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Hmm. When there's an OC involved, it's a hard road to recovery. No contact with OP is virtually impossible if OP is the mother of the child, as opposed to father of the child.

Also, you have no reason to believe he's made the necessary changes, correct?

Why exactly does he want you to think things over? Is it because he's going to make it up to you until the day he dies? Or because he figures he's such a great catch you should be happy to have even a little lying piece of him?

Have you talked to your attorney? What does he say about filing?

Why does your doctor want you to talk to WH?

I already told STBX I'm not planning to wait for him.

He of course denies all the rumors. Said's she's just a friend from the past that he's been keeping in touch with.

I said, blah, blah, blah...just get it done or I will.

Oh and BTW, I'm getting a new doctor, I don't like the way this one operates. I don't think that I should be listening to anything my STBX has to say as I know that it's all lies!

As for an attorney I don't have one yet. My STBX filed and I wasn't going to fight him on it so didn't think I needed one.

Now he's giving me all this garbage about how he has all these feelings that he needs to consider.

Well, I'm not having it! I want this divorce done and over with ASAP.

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