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That my STBXH is cheating on his prego OW with an old GF that just came back into town a couple of months ago. She's supposedly divorced with a 16yo daughter.
Don't know if it's true but, I heard it from a friend of a friend of a friend of STBXH.
Anyway, rumor has it, the new OW was one of his HSGFs and that he had been totally in love with her.
When she went away to college he got involved with his now ex-wife which he then had to marry cause she got pregnant.
And to top it all off he's still calling me trying to set up a date for dinner or something, so we can talk about maybe resolving our situation. OMG!!! I swear I'm getting to the point where I can't stand this man.
I don't know how much of this I should believe but, regardless of whether it's true or not, it gives me one more reason to get the h3ll out of this marriage.
I told him last time he called that I wanted him to get me the divorce papers ASAP. He told me not to be in such a hurry that I should stop and think things over.
I talked to my doctor and told him that if my STBX doesn't get this divorce over with soon I'm going to file the papers myself.
He thinks I should talk to my STBX and listen to what he has to say before doing anything. I thought, OH H3ll No!! I want this over with now!!!
Thank God for the happy pills, they're the only things keeping me from coming unglued.
What do you think? Should I file the papers myself?
Only
BS-Me 27
WS-STBX 35
DDay 4/2/05
WS filed for Divorce 4/25/05
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Yikes!! Only, not alot to add here, just wanted to let you know someone is listening!! I am waiting for my STBXH to throw a monkey wrench in, seems way too easy so far <sigh> I do thank God he is fixed or he would have surely knocked up someone by now! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Good luck to you!!
BW, 33 WH 36
Md 14.5 yrs
DD13, DS11, DD4
Tired of counting d-days, D proceeding 7/05
"Pride can break a man right down from iron.
Twist him 'round 'round and tatter up a soul
Handprint of God on the small of my back
my second chance, my second chance.
I'll bend a knee my friend, I'll bend a knee...
Lay It Down say it's all my fault, all my fault.
Say I believe, I believe lay it down.
This the hour of my healing, of my healing,
yeah my heart, my heart redeemed."
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Whether the rumor is true or not, the guy is out of control. He's got a child on the way but not with you, he's already destroyed any trust or any relationship. What does it matter what he has to say? He has an obligation to the unborn baby and that little one's mother.
Your doctor says listen to what he has to say? Huh? I would file myself. The sooner you cut loose from this liar the better for you. Don't get dragged back in by his manipulations.
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I would file myself. The sooner you cut loose from this liar the better for you. Don't get dragged back in by his manipulations. Bellevue: You are so right!!! I already told STBX I'm not planning to wait for him. He, of course, denies all the rumors. Said's she's just a friend from the past that he's been keeping in touch with. I said, blah, blah, blah...just get it done or I will. Oh and BTW, I'm getting a new doctor, I don't like the way this one operates. Only
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I'm sorry I dont know your story! When was your dday?
Whether the rumor is true or not, if you are truly done with the marriage, it should not matter one way or another...so what if he is seeing someone other than his OW...that is no longer your worry!
Why are you waiting for him to file? If you ahve not recieved the papers, you need to file NOW...it is better if YOU file FIRST...let the ball be in your court, not his...I dont know why you would wait for him to serve you first!
File yourself if you really want a divorce! dont wait for him!
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