This is all happening to fast. I love my wife and kids dearly I don't want to lose them. She is days away from moving out, says she can't and does not know how to forgive and forget what I did 2 1/2 yrs ago. She stopped seeing the counselor and stopped al anon. Now she just on a course to leave and get a divorce. Her family does not support us as a couple but supports her as a individual. She listens to everything her father and mother says. I ve been going to AA 110 days sober. I am working on other behaviors to change. I have been more sensitive and caring to her feelings and emotions. I have created a better balance between home and work. I have been doing more things with the kids and very supportive of her at home and personally. Everyone I have spoke to says there is still time and a chance. Even the narriage counselor says there is still hope. But she has determination that I have never seen before. She is already worked the details of seperating everything. She signs a new lease for a apartment on monday. What can I do. I love her with all my heart the more I try to talk the worse she gets upset with me. please help. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />