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So if a man is feeling guilty can it cause him to be impotent. or unable to preform the sf. just wondered <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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I am living through this right now. My WH had no problems before I discovered his "activity" but has problems now. My suspicion is that it is guilt-related. He has appt with Dr to rule out physical reasons so we'll see.
Me = FBS age 51
FWH = age 51
M 25 years, 2 children 16 and 20
D-Day 5/19/05
Recovered and happy
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what does SF stand for? Sexual function? lol
Me 20
WW 20
Friends since: December 10, 1999
Began Dating: October 29, 2003
Married Feb 13, 2004
D-Day: July 28, 2005
Separated since: June 9, 2005
Now in Plan B - headed for D.
Praying on God's guidance and support
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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SF sexual fullfillment. just wondering found a bottle of levitra in wh stuff. must be having trouble.lol
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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So if a man is feeling guilty can it cause him to be impotent. or unable to preform the sf. just wondered <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> I ain't no doctor and I didn't stay at a holiday inn last night but think the answer to your question is yes. I know that after my pops was outed that he had problems in that arena. And I know from personal experience that certain emotional periods seem to hamper my circus act...
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I have the same question. While H was cheating, he said he had problems with SF while with OW. But H was performing well with me.
I assumed it was his guilt in being with OW that killed his SF, but I secretly hope he was just so attracted to me that he couldn't function well with any other woman! Yeah right...
Hannah
BW(me) - 34
H - 32
P/E A 12/04 - 4/05
D-day#1 2/14/05
D-day#2 2/26/05
Recommitted 5/11/05
Married 8 yrs, together 11 yrs
DS 7 yrs
DD 3 yrs
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My wh and i never had trouble in that department so i guess his guilt must be causing the problem as far as i am concerned i hope he never gets it up with the ow. serves them right.
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Actually it can be used for sexual enhancement so he can do it even more than usual.
Sorry, not necessarily due to impotence or GUILT.....
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