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#1423009 07/11/05 03:55 PM
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I have posted here several times in the past month, but not lately. I have just found out my H is using steriods, he has done them before we got married, but has really started using them heavily the past 3-4 months, I have read the side effects of them, and can they really effect a person mind, to where they throw their marriage away, or just don't know what they want. He always says he don't know what he wants. He works out in all his free time, and all he talks about anymore. Could this be a big problem. Please help...


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You need a doctor to help you. Those things can make you really irrational and hot tempered and they can have long term health effects. You're married and he works out to improve his body for ... what now? To turn you on, to please you? Probably not. sterioid use shrinks your genitals, kills sex drive.

You don't have power to force him to see a doctor or to stop. Maybe medical type posters will see this and respond to you.

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Yes, this could be a big problem, for him, and for your marriage. Please follow Bellevue's advice.


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