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God I cant stand this! I have been married 11 years and seen my husband through so much crap. He has cheated on me, lied to me over and over, mentally abused me, and neglected me. He is trying now, he has quit drinking wiskey, which made the abusive behavior come out, and he has made a huge effort to not be so critical of me for no reason.

The problem I am having is that he is getting very distant again. Every time that has happened before it was because he was feeling guilty about something. This recent stent of distance conviently comes right after a 5 day trip we took with some friends to the beach campgrounds. A trip in which he dissapeared for 4 hours. I cant ask him about anything because he just gets mad and calls me crazy. How do I talk to him?????????

so frustrated!!!

-SpiningSwan

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I'm not sure that you try. But what about asking the most likely candidates from the group of friends?

If your H is really that untrustworthy, it would seem you ahve a long road ahead of you.


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