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This morning, I sent OW an email stating that if she wanted more proof, I have thought of other things that would prove I was not lying and this was in regards to him being unfaithful to his and her relationship. Well, I just spoke to OW and she said, "it really doesn't matter if the two of you (he and I) had sex, we are just going to move forward and he is moving in with me this weekend." I guess she is willing to overlook his alcoholism, his unfaithfulness, etc., etc., but all I can say is "I guess they deserve each other."

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I always thought that any smart woman thinking of marrying a divorced man ought to contact the X wife first !!!!

You've given her a "heads up" and she is not a smart woman ... waste no more time with her.

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Pepper,

You are absolutely right. I am DONE. I know they both have their own problems (he has so many more than she does), and she is basically getting into the same situation she was previously in, if not worse.

I am the better person in this whole situation. Now, I need to take care of myself and my daughter. One day, I am sure my prince charming will show up and maybe then I will also realize why God has planned all of this for me. There has to be a better outcome and a reason why I am being put through all of this pain.

Thanks,
Sassy


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