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If a 60 year old divorced woman has a 40 year old divorced daughter, can they both date the same 50 year old man? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> wiftty
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Of course! As to the separate question of whether or not it's wise... Let's just say that I don't want to be anywhere nearby. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/ooo.gif" alt="" /> Seriously, I think a lot would depend on the particulars.
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Ask Jerry Springer! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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[color:"blue"] Wiffty,
You wouldn't catch me dating a guy that my daughter was interested in - would never want to compete in that way.
Also, I haven't seen much evidence of 50yo guys WANTING to date a 60yo woman. I am 40, and most of the guys that want to date me are 48-55 or even 60. I think that is too old for me personally. The guys my age (mostly - I'm sure there are exceptions) on the internet dating site I use mostly go for women up to 35.
I did a search and found the site seems to be enriched with guys 39-45 (roughly 60%) that have no children. My conclusion was that the ones looking for younger women may be guys wanting to (finally) start a family?
Cracks me up when I do meet a guy face to face because his first response is surprised pleasure - I feel like I should pick his jaw up from the road or something. Either my pictures don't do me justice (which I've been told), or they got hit with online pic fraud before. (That's the one where the pic is 10 years out of date and 30 lbs lighter...)
Aren't I the cynical one?
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I did a search and found the site seems to be enriched with guys 39-45 (roughly 60%) that have no children. My conclusion was that the ones looking for younger women may be guys wanting to (finally) start a family? *sigh* Alas, that's my demographic.
Profile: male in mid forties
History: deserted after 10+ years of marriage, and divorced; no communication since the summer of 2000
Status: new marriage October 2008
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