I have been lurking for a while. I found this website before my boyfriend confessed that he had been sleeping around with different women. That night he told me that he wasn't sure if he ever loved me. We have been living together for 2 years. We have a son together and I have another son from a previous relationship. I was so hurt when he confessed (it was also our son's 1st birthday) i cried and told him that I love him that I did not want him to leave us. I asked a lot of questions and he answered most of them. The next day I went to work and he called wanting to know what I was going to do, but I told him I want him to decide if he wanted to stay with us or leave and that I wanted an answer that afternoon. Well he told me that he wanted to stay with me then I told him that I wanted him to tell the ow that he was staying with his family and I wanted him to do it in front of me, so he did. For the next few weeks i could not function some days I did not want to go home, I just wanted to go somewhere away from him and be by myself but I could not leave without my kids. I have not been doing so good in our relationship I'm angry I did good right after, but now I just want to leave him and see if someone else will do to him what he did to me and he can see how much he hurt me. I know I need to change my way of thinking because I do love him and he is a good father to both of my kids. He also used to talk to girls on the phone that were his friends and he stop talking to them since them. I'm just so hurt because of what he did that sometimes I treat him bad like I don't care. I was never like this before I was always the one to go to him when we would argue and try to fix things. I would like to know how I can continue with our relationship without feeling like leaving just to teach him that the grass is not greaner on the other side?

I am wondering why you never married. Do you know?

I think I never believe in marriage, he wants to get married maybe later I will married him.

Welcome to marriagebuilders. Glad you have found us. Did you mean that your man has been sleeping around with several different women?

If so, I would sure not marry him. That would be big red flags for me. He didn't even wait to get married to start cheating.