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#1427182 07/17/05 08:23 AM
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Thinkin' 'bout cha. I pray all good things for you.

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Hunny, I've been missing you. (not you Bob <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />)

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Thinkin' 'bout cha. I pray all good things for you.

{{{{ARK}}}}

What was ya thinking about her, Bob? Is something wrong with Ark? [besides being a yankee? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />]


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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LOL Mel ! I wonder if 'yankedom' is like the Scots are..

Basically the further north in Scotland you were born makes you more Scottish ! The Borders Scots refer to English as 'Sassenachs'. Then the highlanders refer to Borders as Sassenachs. And so it goes on the John O'Groats ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Ark had some medical challenges that seemed to be having a good outcome. She's not been around for a while and I was pinging just to make sure she knows we think about her.


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Hey Bob, I was thinking about you yesterday. I was listening to this radio show where they were laughing at the BBC because they won't use politically incorrect words like "terrorists." [this is a huge point of amusement in the US] The host commented that the terrorists who bombed y'all were "true blue British" and even spelled color "colour!!!!" heehee Spelling color with that superfluous "u" was the proof in the pudding for her! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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ark^^

I am so thankful when you pop into one of my threads, I value your advice. I value your gentle grace. I'm happy that you took time for me today. I hope that you are doing fine.

sisterly hugs,
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Me BS 44
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Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
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Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)


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Ark,

Mahalo for helping LT out.

How r u doing?

Want to ask for your help on a couple of other threads (fox and hurtalot). If you can, ok? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

take care,
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I value your gentle grace

"Gentle grace" my [censored] ! She kicked my butt til I exposed along with WAT and Mel ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Bob,

Here is the thread that I wrote to PEP on Thurs.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...rue#Post2759793

HINY


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heya bob and all thanks for the call out..

I am well infact...

no cancer..yeah!!

don't tell melody but I am a true scottish lass yank...got the curly red-locks to prove it as well.....

I have to laugh whenever I see your Call out to other UKers et all...and refrain from typing my disbelief that Ms. Melody even lets it known that there are other places besides that lone star state....but I do digress...

was away for a week over the fourth and it seems you miss so much in a week...and I have been trying to catch up and jump in....

hope all are well...read your post about squids true sharing of her regret...and it felt good ....

blessings to all....

thanks orchid....will try to take a look at those posts...

ARK^^ who noticed that WAT hasn't been around and hope he hasn't been eaten by a giant bay CRAB!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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no cancer

Just about the two best words I know of Ark. My family has been decmated by cancer.

Squid and my DD12 ran a charity 5k race today for a breast cancer charity. They had to write who they were running for on sheet spinned to their backs.

Squid ran " For IVY XX " ( My mom who seccumbed to cancer in '99). Kate ran for 'Nanny XX' also my Mom.

The sheet was reversable. One side said " running in celebration of..." and the other " running in memory of...".

There were more "memories" than "celebrations" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> .

I'll make sure the next one in September that somebody has a "celebrating ARK" tag on.

Great about Squid. Truly. I'm struggling a bit being the 'fannyversary' and all this month but I fought too dam' hard to quit now <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Glad your OK darl'.

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I have to laugh whenever I see your Call out to other UKers et all...and refrain from typing my disbelief that Ms. Melody even lets it known that there are other places besides that lone star state....but I do digress...

We Texans DO acknowledge that there is some other foolishness north of the Red River, such as EYE-talians and those ever politically correct Brits. "bombers" indeed! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Just because their yankee foolishness is not on our Bubba radar does not mean we don't know ALL ABOUT them! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> [Texans know just about everthin' anyway!]

Anyway, I am glad to hear you are going to be alright. No one tells me crap around this joint so I wasn't aware you had a scare there. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Hi, Ark^^.

I have missed you lately. I am glad you are well.

God bless.
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-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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Ark^^,

I just got back from camping glad you are okay also.

Thinking of you and your health as well. Glad everything came out great!

HINY


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