Have been trying to figure out what to say to WH's boss regarding the A. It is a workplace A. I guess the goal is to just let the boss know, not really expecting a response???

ME: "Hi, this is XX. Needed to let you know about something. WH has been having an A with OW. I am trying to save my marriage and just wanted to make you aware of the situation."

Is that all I really need to say?? I DON't want WH to get fired. THat would totally ruin us financially. WH will be extremely mad with me of course........

Why isn't exposure & how to go about it mentioned in SAA??? I know someone asked this question before but I can't find the thread.....

Why does exposure make me feel so ungodly? Am I walking in the footsteps with Jesus when I do this?? I have prayed about this and need to pray some more. This is a terrible battle going on inside of me.

Thanks,

Kim
D-Day May 14th
DS, age 5
Married 13 years

Kim, do you really think that Jesus would think it is wrong to expose evil and save your marriage? Your silence AIDS AND ABETS evil. Your silence helps the BAD GUYS. I am amazed that you could say that. Instead of going by your "feelings" [which are misleading] go by God's word: Ephesians 5:11 Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.


I would ask what he can do to help bust up this affair at work. Can he help you or do you need to contact Human Resources. Let him know that you are willing to take this a step farther if need be.

Are you staying in contact with the OWH and working with him to bust up this affair?

Kimberley,

On the following thread:

Affair Exposure 101

you will find a link to a thread named:

On exposing a workplace affair to the employer.

Read it and see if you can find it helpful.

Blessings,
Suzet