Hello all,<BR>I dont post too much. My husband and i have been separated for about 6 months. I am trying to save our marriage, however he is involved with someone via the internet. He is torn which direction to go in. Well today i feel hopeful, cause he said that he might say good bye to her. My question is how will he be able to feel like he made the right decision. I will feel like if things arent going well that i let him down, and he would wish he was with her. I am already insecure and wonder how i can deal with that. If anyone has been thru this let me know. He only knows her for 3 months and feels almost as close to her as me, and sometimes he says they are closer. It really hurts. we have been together for almost 15 years. I need to remain strong and positive,anyone gone through this???