Well i have in the works plan b and will offically start it in 2 weeks. but i was so upset the last few days that i wouldn't speak to wh on the phone and this bothers him. well today he calls and talks to dd11 and asks if its okay to come over and get his car. i said it was okay. i was mowing the grass when he showa up. he goes in the house and sees the girls for a minute then comes outside and preceeds to pick up the yard. like he still lived here and was helping me out. flaggs me down to talk so i shut the mower off and he goes into wanting to take the girls this week-end i said it was fine. then asked why he needed to ask permission to get his car. he said since i wasn't speaking to him on the phone that he didn't want to just show up. i politly informed him that he was still my husband and i was still his wife this was still his house and those kids where still his kids so it was unnecessary for him to act like that. he just stood there and hung his head and didn't say a word. i got off the mower and checked on the water for the horses. he went in the house looking for me. i came in the side door he said i thought you where in the bathroom. i didn't say anything. he said well i will see you later and i said bye.
I think the silent treatment over the last couple of days has bothered him.well i think its just a little funny he doesn't know what to think about it. i am just going to keep him confused as he!!