Do WS really come around if they think you can get on with your life without them? Are you to be friendly but indifferent? I'm afraid to be too independent because it would seem I'm ignoring him which was an issue that led him to stray. The thought of going from a stay-at-home mom to an independent, working provider scares the heck out of me! How do you stay strong and refrain from being a clingy, doormat who cries "don't leave me?"