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#1431181 07/19/05 01:43 PM
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The OW told me she loves him with all of her heart. Does that mean she won't leave him alone and cause him to relapse?

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i believe that she will try to contact him.

what is your husbands intentions?

have you followed the suggestions to protect against further contact as suggested in "surviving an affair"?

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The last 6 weeks has been all a lie. He says he didn't want anything to do with her. We went on vacation and was healing very well. Then I found out he had been calling her everyday. Then he told me he loved her, and her him. Then he wanted to come back home because I was the one he really loves and wants to spend the rest of his life with. So she shows up at my house and well, I jumped her, ended up getting arrested for assualt. She continued to call him, he reported it to the deputies and they called her and told her not to call our house or his work anymore. Now he says he hasn't talked to her since?!?!

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Hurt...

It's a lot easier for everyone to follow your story and to post advice to you if you stick to a single thread. Having multiple threads to go to in order to track what's going on will limit people's ability to give you advice.

Please try to keep to a single thread if you can...change the title as needed to reflect your situation if you like, but this way all your information is in a single location. Just a suggestion.


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