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I love my H very much but I don't know if i can continue to live here. Talked to an att. today and said that it would be no trouble there is nothing that he can do to stop me. the worst that happens is i have to return for legal stuff if he files for a d. Just don't know if i leave will it wake him up sooner or will it make it worse. I am so confused as to what to do. i can but my stuff in storage and get it later. I just know that i can't deal with his affair being rubbed in my face. I have been praying about what to do. and still have no resolve. I just want to disappear. can anyone help me.
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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joanna - Can he move out and put his stuff in storage? The one that is having the affair should be the one to leave.
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he is already gone. it just hurts me beyond belief to know that he is spending all his free time and our money on her. he very rarely sees the kids and he really doesn't cre what happens to me
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Ooops. Have your attorney get busy securing you finances.
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he is already gone. it just hurts me beyond belief to know that he is spending all his free time and our money on her. he very rarely sees the kids and he really doesn't cre what happens to me Go get your $$. All of it and then some. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Remember OWs stink. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> L.
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