Checked cell bill online (charges since before d-day 6/21). See that he called her 7/8 when said last contact was 7/6; unfortunately only get outgoing ph#s and not incoming but doesn't look like calls originated from her home/cell#s. Do not know if any contact since the 8th (bill stops 7/13). Got angry, called OW home#, said"You know who this is--do NOT call MY husband again" and hung up; went to do same on her cell--she answered and I just hung up. WH goes tdy (business trip-military) next week for 3 days (we move into our new house tomorrow). Do I confront him re: phone bill? Just wait until he returns fr. tdy? Wait to see if he mentions I called her? Has not done NC letter-- I hope I will be less upset tonight and request he do so in + manner--that it would make me feel better, give closure to all involved to move on, etc. Any advice?

I gotta scoot to work so I can't post much. Bumping for the others to help out.

U need to get on a solid plan. What do you know about plans A & B?

L.