I know that I have seen several posts where books are recommended, but up to this point I think that I have had blinders on forever hoping that my life would change. I have finally accepted that my M is over and I must move on. I went to the book store today and was overwhelmed with the D books.

Can anyone recommend a few that will help me get strong and face a D that I really don't want, but is necessary? I need to read up on how to create boundries and learn to move on without STBX being an important part of my life.