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I am so done with this mess. he wants her he can have her but i am removing myself from the picture. WH was suppose to take the kids this weekend and guess where he was taking them to the OW house. I don't think so!!! my dd11 layed down the law and said that it wouldn't be happening and he brought her home and was going to dump her and take the baby. One goes they both go. I am so angry right now I am shaking. I can't stand it.
He doesn't want the children involved well don't take them to the OW house. Be a [email]DA@#[/email] man and get a place of your own.Stand on your own two feet for once.Quite being a wuss and stand up. Oh i could just wring his neck right now. anyone else with this problem
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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(((( Joanna )))) My situation is not the same as yours. I just wanted to reply to you and let you know that you are not alone.
God bless you
Carnation
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Joanna, are you and your WH legally separated? Do you have an agreement that he won't introduce the kids to OW? I would try to get something in writing that he won't involve the kids until maybe at least 6 months after you D (if you do) that way the A has time to die. I am so sorry your WH is acting like this but high five to your DD!
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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Joanna, had you explained to him that he can't take those kids around the OW? I would make that very clear and have your lawyer get it into a seperation agreement. Those kids should not be dragged around sleazy characters.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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